Bereavement whether through death, divorce or separation is a major event in anyone's life.  Below is a useful video to point out that grieving is a process not a task and it takes time.  There are many stages that you might meet on the way, including: Denial, Anger, Depression, Bargaining & Acceptance.

1:1 Support - we both have considerable expereince in working with bereavement (as amongst other things have both worked in hospices at various times), so would be happy to help if you need some extra support to work through things.